Airports: Nearby airports include the San Francisco (SFO) and Oakland (OAK) airports (about 20-30 minutes away). The San Jose airport (SJC) is about an hour away.
Lodging: For nearby hotels, please refer to the following.
http://calparents.berkeley.edu/guide/visiting/stay.html
Another option is to check out:
https://www.airbnb.com/